5 Years Old Birthday Boy

Five Years Old



1 Day Old Julian

I can’t believe five years has gone by! I vaguely remember how tiny you were… how adorable you were. You were a good baby… I miss the way you yawned and stretched every time you wake up. I miss your babyhood…


3 Years Old Birthday Boy

Julian Celebrating His 3rd Birthday

This was you when you celebrated your third birthday in school. Yes you were that cute! I miss the way you run around, always ready to go! You were a curious little guy.


5 Years Old Birthday Boy

Julian Celebrating His 5th Birthday

Today, you turn FIVE! No longer a baby but a charming, forgiving boy with such sensitivity towards the people around you. I know I am going to miss your first five years someday.

We love you Julian…

Engaged In Playdough

Fun With Homemade No Cook Playdough

Fun With Playdough

The kids having fun with playdough!

Julian loves playing with Play-Doh. He often requests for it but I would hesitate whenever I think about the numerous colorful bits of Play-Doh that I have to scrape off the floor and put back into the Play-Doh cans each time he’s done playing. We now have a large collection of Play-Doh cans with colorful mixtures that are shrinking in volume. Buying new ones would provide new fun with nice clean colors but it’ll probably last only as long as the first time it’s played with before they add on to the existing collection of colorful mixtures.

I decided to do it differently this time when I found a simple “no cook playdough” recipe. To start it off, I set up a little crafty corner for the kids to provide them with the space and materials they need to play and clean up. With a playdough set made up of baking accessories that came from the kitchen, we were all set to make new playdough with fresh colors!

Once I prepared the ingredients into a big bowl, Julian was kept busy kneading the mixture into his very own homemade playdough. He was so fascinated with his newly created playdough that he created more with different colors while I prepared dinner!

Kneading Homemade Playdough

Julian kneading his homemade playdough.

So here is the simple recipe for the “no cook playdough” that you can make with your kids at home, courtesy of Montessori By Hand.

Simple Homemade Playdough Recipe

Makes about one kids size handful of playdough


  • 4 tablespoons of white flour
  • 2 tablespoons of salt
  • 1 dropper-full of vegetable oil
  • 2 tablespoons of diluted food coloring


  1. Simply add all the ingredients into a bowl or pot or container that is big enough for kneading and minimizing spillage.
  2. Mix well and knead.
  3. PLAY!
  4. Keep the playdough in an airtight container and refrigerated when the kids are not playing it. The playdough tends to dry up after long exposure and play. When that happens, it’s time to make new ones!
Engaged In Playdough

The kids totally engaged in their playdough creations!

For our next batch of playdough, we’ll be adding glitters and beans! That should create a whole lot of sensory fun for the little fingers!

If you’ve got ideas and experience to share with us, we love to read them. Meanwhile, have fun with your homemade playdough!

Is Homeschooling The Answer

Is Homeschooling The Answer?

The seed of homeschooling was planted in our family back in 2007. It started when a friend recommended the “Singapore Homeschool” Yahoo group to us. Julian was just a year old at that time so we were quietly reading whatever that was posted in the forum to get an idea of what goes on in homeschooling.

The first thing that amazed us when we joined the homeschooling forum was how resourceful and positive these homeschooling parents are towards providing a different kind of education for their kids! In our views, it is much more wholesome and holistic than the classroom-based education that is compulsory in Singapore.

In Singapore, it is compulsory by law for children above the age of 6 and under the age of 15 to attend a national primary school (also known as elementary school in some countries). However, exemptions from Compulsory Education are given to children with special needs, children attending designated schools (such as religious schools) and children receiving homeschooling. For parents who wish to homeschool their children, they are required to apply to the Ministry of Education for a certificate confirming that the child has been exempted from Compulsory Education. For more information on Compulsory Education in Singapore and how you can get exemption from it, you can visit the Ministry of Education’s website on Compulsory Education.

Although a tingling thought to homeschool our kids developed in us, we wondered, “How do we do it?”, “Where do we start from?” and “Is homeschooling suitable for our kids?”

Ironically, we visited a Montessori School in October 2008 when Julian was just 2 years and 3 months old. Being the first Montessori school in Singapore with over 20 years of history, we were pretty excited about the visit especially since one of the teachers there is a friend who introduced the Montessori Method to us before Julian was born. When we arrived at the school, Julian was immediately engaged with the practical life works there while we were given a tour of the school. The benefits of starting Julian’s preschool education there became clear:

  • Julian has always been a very active child and always on the move looking for things to do. So providing him with a Montessori environment could fulfill his need for movement and work.
  • Having Julian in school also meant that we could have some personal time, which can really make a difference on some days!

We loved what we saw so we decided to start Julian’s preschool education in the Montessori school.

Discovering Sensory Sensitivity

One of the things that we really like about Julian’s school is the close rapport we have with his teachers. This has always allowed us to freely discuss and share Julian’s progress, lighthearted moments and other issues. In the middle of 2009, the teachers told us that Julian gets distracted easily and has not been able to focus well. He tends to constantly surround himself with noise, such as talking, humming or tapping on the table even when he’s working alone. We brushed it off initially thinking that those are things that kids usually do, especially since Julian is the REALLY chatty type. We also deduced that Julian was still adjusting to the early school hours and hence could not focus well.

But as the same feedback persisted for over a year, we couldn’t brush it off anymore. In August 2010, we probed further into the feedback and realized the extent of the teachers’ concerns. So we decided to go with the school’s suggestion to bring Julian for an assessment with an Occupational Therapist.

After 2 sessions with an Occupational Therapist specialized in pediatrics, she suggested that Julian could be Sensory Sensitive based on her observations and the feedback we gave her. She recommended some practical methods that can be effective in helping sensory sensitive children to focus better and manage distractions among other sensory integration issues. Some of these methods include:

  • Playing soft music in the background while Julian is doing work.
  • Providing a quieter working place where there is less people moving around.
  • Providing a “manipulative” to hold on during sessions that require listening concentration.

Since there is no one-size-fits-all solution, the key is to test and observe which methods work in different situations. In order to do this both at home and in school, we got Julian’s school to work hand-in-hand with our Occupational Therapist. We must say we have been very blessed that the school has been really supportive in testing the methods and updating us with his progress!

We’ll dig into the topic of Sensory Sensitivity and Occupational Therapy in another blog post as we think it really deserves a discussion of its own.

School or Homeschool?

Homeschooling! Or is it?

That pretty much sums up our initial thoughts… and fears!

We recognize the benefits of homeschooling like:

  • Being able to help Julian manage his sensory integration issues at home.
  • Being able to make learning fun by spotting his interest and bringing in activities or good reads to grow his thoughts.
  • Most importantly,being able to have more quality time with Julian. As parents, we want to play an active role in Julian’s learning journey instead of simply depending on school.

But we also recognize the benefits of attending a Montessori school like:

  • Working together with teachers to help Julian focus better and manage distractions in a school environment.
  • Providing the full range of Montessori works that we can’t provide at home.
  • Julian having his own circle of friends in school.

To be honest, we have our own fears too! The decision to homeschool calls for a new commitment that requires much time, effort and patience. It calls for self-confidence and humility. It calls for us to step out of our comfort zone of simply relying on the school for Julian’s preschool education!

After many weeks of contemplation, we decided to reduce Julian’s school hours by half. We also moved Julian from the English Montessori program to the Chinese Montessori program that is conducted in a quieter section of the school. So Julian now goes to school on 3 mornings a week, allowing us to integrate homeschooling when he’s not in school.

Is Homeschooling The Answer

Julian in deep fascination!

The  first 6 weeks have been very encouraging. Julian began showing a renewed enthusiasm in learning. Incorporating learning through field trips and books recommended by homeschoolers has sparked Julian’s interest to discover more through questions, books and experiments. This renewed enthusiasm has somehow made Julian more enthusiastic about going to school too! We believe the change to the Chinese Montessori program coupled with a quieter environment in school helped! While we can’t single out the biggest contributing factor among the several changes we made, we are happy yet relieved that our first step into homeschooling has taken a positive direction.

So what is your take on homeschooling? What are your considerations? What are your experiences? Share your thoughts with us  in the comments below!

That's Our Family!

Why We Got Ourselves A New Blog

That's Our Family!

That's Us!

We are incredibly excited about this blog! It feels like we’ve just moved into a new home with a fresh look and feel.

Especially since we started planning for this move back in 2009!

So why did we get ourselves a new blog?

Well, we’ve been blogging in our own blogs (@ Potty Hubby and Petite Home) since 2008. We started them as our online diaries to record our family activities, happenings, experiences, observations and thoughts from our own perspectives. But at times, we would discuss who’s going to blog about particular family activities and friends would ask us whose blog they should visit to read about these activities. That made us realize that it was kind of funny for us to be writing in different blogs when we were doing everything in the family together.

So we embarked on a project.

After more than a year and many unpublished blog posts, we finally started our brand new blog! It’s here where we’ll share our thoughts, experiences and challenges as we explore homeschooling, indoor activities, outdoor trips and family life in the city.

We hope to create a community of positive like-minded parents that will encourage and inspire everyone here. So let’s get connected and journey together!

Where To Find Sewing Supplies In Singapore?

A few days back, I went restocking for materials to make more bags! I thought it would be interesting for me to feature some places around Singapore where I source for sewing and craft materials. This post will be the first of many more to come!

The photos you will see are not in the best quality. I only had my iPhone with me when I was there.

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Textile Centre

This building in the photo certainly does not look very appealing to me to go in for a shopping spree… but wait! This is a place where I can stay for hours. This is Textile Centre located at Jalan Sultan. Click on the link if you are interested to find out how to get there.

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Textile Centre

Textile Centre can be a one stop shop for you to purchase all the sewing gadgets you need to get started (Except sewing machine). As for fabrics, there are a few shops in the building that have them, but a better place to shop for fabrics is Arab Street. It is about 5mins walk from Textile Centre. I would usually take a train to Bugis Station, head down to Arab Street before my way to Textile Centre. I will be blogging more about Arab Street in future.

Back to Textile Centre, the shops selling sewing accessories and tools are on Level 1. Not many shops though, but enough for you to get what you need. They have a wide range of beads, crystals, rhinestones, ribbons, trimmings, sewing tools, bag making tools, buttons, peacock feathers, hairclips…. Oh! so many little things that I cannot finish listing!

Snapshots of the shops to share with you…

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Buttons at Textile Centre

Colourful buttons.. Metal buttons.. Mini buttons.. Wooden buttons.. and much more!

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Cords at Textile Centre

Variety of cords!

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Ribbons & Trimmings at Textile Centre

Ribbons and trimmings!

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More Ribbons & Trimmings at Textile Centre

Whatever colours you would like to have. Choose yourself!

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Sewing Gadgets & Accessories at Textile Centre

Sewing gadgets and accessories you need to start off your sewing hobby!

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Beads & Crystals at Textile Centre

Beads and crystals!

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More Ribbons & Trimmings at Textile Centre

More ribbons and trimmings!